The right place and time
Coaching provides a context to pursue intimacy
It is always a good time to invest in your marriage. Coaching will make a good marriage better, a challenging marriage healthier, a transitional marriage come alive for the next season.
Avoidance of conflict is the number one predictor of divorce. Coaching allows you and your spouse to discuss the complexities of your marriage in the safety of a coaching environment.
Coaching is for any couple where both partners are willing to pursue intimacy. Whether or not you’re in ministry and regardless how long you’ve been married, coaching is for you.
Our Job as marriage coaches is to spend the time needed with a couple to genuinely hear and guide them to resources and tools that will make a difference, as soon as possible.
Relationship is everything
Our coaching process is about us, as a couple, building a relationship with you, as a couple. While there are thousands of useful resources out there to help your marriage, there is nothing that can replace the power of another human taking the time to walk life alongside you.
How does it work?
With over thirty years as Marriage and Family Educators and Pastoral Counselors, Curt and Rhonda Hamner offer wise, biblical and practical relationship coaching. Professionally trained in a unique set of leadership skills as coaches, we help you identify important goals and priorities, guiding you as you strategize how to reach them and overcome obstacles that crop up along the way. Experienced in years of pastoral care, as pastors, we can help recognize the emotional and spiritual dynamics of your relationship.
Certified and practicing together as a couple, we can guide you to tools and disciplines that will move you in new directions in your communication. As skilled listeners, the Hamners provide insight, direction and practical tools to grow your relationship to new levels of passion, commitment and intimacy. Whether you are experiencing particular challenges or just trying to strengthen a growing marriage call for more information or to make an appointment.
The number one predictor of Divorce is not the presence of conflict all marriages have conflict, the primary harbinger of difficulty and separation is the avoidance of conflict. Research shows that the greatest difference between couples who make it and those who don’t is that those who make it have the tools to deal with conflict. Coaching is an interactive process that helps couples to develop skills more rapidly and produce more satisfying results. Coaching is partnering with clients in a thought-provoking and creative process that inspires them to maximize their potential as a couple. The energy of the process is found in the coach’s ability to formulate powerful questions.
Coaches are trained to listen, to observe and to customize their approach to individual couples’ needs. Coaching allows the coach to spend the time needed with a couple to genuinely hear and guide them to resources and tools that will make a difference, as soon as, possible. Between Two Trees Coaching can be done in person or over the phone; in some cases weekend intensives help jumpstart the process.